{"id":1258,"date":"2010-02-06T06:00:57","date_gmt":"2010-02-06T12:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=1258"},"modified":"2010-02-06T06:00:57","modified_gmt":"2010-02-06T12:00:57","slug":"embracing-the-gift","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100206-1258.htm","title":{"rendered":"Embracing the &#8220;Gift&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/category\/relationships\/love-month\"><img loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Love Month Banner\" src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/images\/2010lovemonth.jpg\" title=\"Love Month Banner\" class=\"alignnone\" width=\"400\" height=\"133\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yay&#8230;just what I always wanted,&#8221; you think sarcastically as you inventory this year&#8217;s Christmas gifts.  Textbooks from your parents. A completely-not-your-style sweater from your sister. Deodorant from your obnoxious little brother.  And another year of singleness.  &#8220;<i>Thanks<\/i>, God, but I was really hoping for a ring this year.  Didn&#8217;t I tell you that&#8217;s what I wanted LAST year?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve been there, you&#8217;re not alone.  I&#8217;ve been there many a year.  It&#8217;s been more than one year that I&#8217;ve made my list on December 31&#8211;plenty enough time for God to arrange for me to get me the item that tops the list.  A husband.  That&#8217;s what I want for Christmas.  And I&#8217;m giving you twelve months to find one.  It shouldn&#8217;t be that hard, right?  Especially not for God.<\/p>\n<p>But then Christmas rolls around and I unwrap my gifts, and self-pity hits when I realize that once again, God&#8217;s chosen to give me&#8230;singleness.<\/p>\n<p>Singleness?  Are you serious? Yep, He&#8217;s serious.  HE seems to really think a lot of it, even if I didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been a reluctant recipient of the gift of singleness for many a year, but by God&#8217;s grace, He&#8217;s helped me to begin to embrace this thing that He calls a &#8220;gift&#8221; but that I&#8217;m all too wont to call a &#8220;burden&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Yay&#8230;just what I always wanted,&#8221; you think sarcastically as you inventory this year&#8217;s Christmas gifts. Textbooks from your parents. A completely-not-your-style sweater from your sister. Deodorant from your obnoxious little brother. And another year of singleness. &#8220;Thanks, God, but I was really hoping for a ring this year. Didn&#8217;t I tell you that&#8217;s what I &#8230; <a title=\"Embracing the &#8220;Gift&#8221;\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100206-1258.htm\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Embracing the &#8220;Gift&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[38],"tags":[224,480,481,1481,1009],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1258"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1258\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}