{"id":12755,"date":"2014-10-08T12:01:36","date_gmt":"2014-10-08T17:01:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=12755"},"modified":"2014-10-08T12:01:36","modified_gmt":"2014-10-08T17:01:36","slug":"desperate-women-will-do-anything","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2014\/20141008-12755.htm","title":{"rendered":"Desperate women will do anything"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ask any healthcare professional what causes pre-eclampsia and they&#8217;ll tell you that we honestly don&#8217;t know. We suspect that there&#8217;s a nutritional component, but clinical studies have been unsuccessful at isolating a root cause or identifying beneficial nutritional practices.<\/p>\n<p>I know this. I try to stay up on the research, on the recommendations. I counsel pregnant women on nutrition for a living. <\/p>\n<p>But when I start gaining fluid rapidly and my blood pressure starts creeping up and I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;m going to risk out of home birth?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m willing to do anything, research be darned.<\/p>\n<p>Up my protein from 80 grams per day to 100? Sure.<\/p>\n<p>Cut out sugar? Sure.<\/p>\n<p>Eat apples and beets for liver function? Why not.<\/p>\n<p>So what if we don&#8217;t have any proof that any of those things will do any good &#8211; if there&#8217;s any chance that they will, I&#8217;ll do it.<\/p>\n<p>It gives me a new compassion for the moms of kids with autism who desperately try eliminating artificial colors, and then gluten, and then dairy. So a professional (like me) tells them that there is no evidence that any of those are associated with autism or decrease in autistic behaviors. <\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re desperate and feel powerless &#8211; they&#8217;ll do anything, however bizarre to try to maintain some level of control. <\/p>\n<p>As do I &#8211; putting my feet up on every occasion, lying down on my left side as soon as I get home from work, avoiding processed foods and sugar, loading up on protein. <\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, the clinician and evidence-based practitioner in me frets over the fact that I really have no idea if any of this will do any good. None of it is based on good science. It&#8217;s all just guesses. <\/p>\n<p>So I do the one thing that will definitely not help my blood pressure stay low. I fret. I worry. I am anxious.<\/p>\n<p>I resist the one thing I have been commanded to do by the One who made my body and who knows exactly what is best for it.<\/p>\n<p><b>He<\/b> says to be anxious for nothing, to lift everything to Him in prayers and supplications with thanksgiving. <b>He<\/b> promises peace that will guard my heart and mind. <\/p>\n<p>Yet I fret, I resist, I try to do something myself, not willing to trust God with my body and my baby&#8217;s. <\/p>\n<p>Lord, forgive me. I come to You desperate &#8211; able to do nothing. Take my fears, I choose to entrust them to You.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ask any healthcare professional what causes pre-eclampsia and they&#8217;ll tell you that we honestly don&#8217;t know. We suspect that there&#8217;s a nutritional component, but clinical studies have been unsuccessful at isolating a root cause or identifying beneficial nutritional practices. I know this. I try to stay up on the research, on the recommendations. 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