Facebook tells me this is Women’s Day. My Feedly newsreader tells me it is the “Day without Women” – where women go on strike to demand recognition of their disenfranchisement.<\/p>\n
On this Women’s Day, having just struggled over the question of “how do you divide chores in your household” in our foster care packet, I want to do the opposite of going on strike.<\/p>\n
Because while some women may want to complain that their work is underpaid and underappreciated, I do not.<\/p>\n
I have the gig I’ve always dreamed of. <\/p>\n
My husband is gone from our home eight hours a day, working for his company. He enjoys his work, yes, but he also works because he’s our breadwinner. He trades forty hours a week for money. Money that we use to pay our mortgage, buy our food, keep the lights on and the heat or air conditioner running.<\/p>\n
I’m at home. I read to our children, sing songs with them, dance about with them. I change their diapers, I feed them meals and snacks, I breastfeed them whenever I need to (without having to hook myself up to a pump.)<\/p>\n
I’m at home. I make the meals, wash the dishes, sweep the floor (sometimes.) I rinse the diapers, wash the laundry, fold it and put it away. I organize and rearrange and decorate. <\/p>\n
I buy or make clothes for our children. I mend the clothes that I or my husband or our children tear. I clothe the children in the morning. <\/p>\n
This is what I’ve always wanted to do.<\/p>\n
On this women’s day, I want women and men to receive equal pay for equal work. I want women to be valued in their workplaces.<\/p>\n
But even more, I want women to have the freedom to make the choices I have.<\/p>\n
My dream is that every mother would be married to a man who recognizes the value she provides in raising their children, who works hard to give her the option of staying at home should she desire that. <\/p>\n
My dream is to live in a world where two incomes are an option, not a necessity – where value isn’t determined by how much money a person makes or how many possessions they have. My dream is that there’d be an end to the arms race of ever bigger houses and cars and vacations, where women could opt out without fearing their children would fall behind. <\/p>\n
My dream is that every woman can do what they’ve always dreamed of, whether or not that includes making money.<\/p>\n
And on this women’s day, I’m going to keep doing what I do every hour of every day. I’m going to keep doing this job I’ve always dreamed of.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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