{"id":18471,"date":"2018-01-27T20:31:20","date_gmt":"2018-01-28T02:31:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=18471"},"modified":"2018-01-28T06:37:17","modified_gmt":"2018-01-28T12:37:17","slug":"unintentionally-snarky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2018\/20180127-18471.htm","title":{"rendered":"Unintentionally snarky"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The man in front of us at church introduced himself, asked about Beth-Ellen and Tirzah Mae.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, Beth-Ellen is a month old, Tirzah Mae is three. We&#8217;ve got another &#8211; eighteen-month-old Louis is in the nursery.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh you&#8217;ve been busy.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>It was an innocuous sort of comment, it didn&#8217;t feel snarky at all. I was thinking of the busy life that is being the mother of three three and under when I responded.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But what a fun thing to be busy with.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>The moment the words were out of my mouth, I realized how snarky they must have sounded (and how totally not polite-conversation-at-church.) <\/p>\n<p>But the deed was done and the musicians started singing and all I could do was contemplate what a bummer it was that the one time I managed a great comeback to a snarky comment was when a) the comment wasn&#8217;t meant snarkily and b) neither was my response. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The man in front of us at church introduced himself, asked about Beth-Ellen and Tirzah Mae. Yes, Beth-Ellen is a month old, Tirzah Mae is three. We&#8217;ve got another &#8211; eighteen-month-old Louis is in the nursery. &#8220;Oh you&#8217;ve been busy.&#8221; It was an innocuous sort of comment, it didn&#8217;t feel snarky at all. I was &#8230; <a title=\"Unintentionally snarky\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2018\/20180127-18471.htm\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Unintentionally snarky<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18471"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18471"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18471\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18473,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18471\/revisions\/18473"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18471"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18471"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18471"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}