{"id":18546,"date":"2018-04-16T20:55:40","date_gmt":"2018-04-17T01:55:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=18546"},"modified":"2018-04-16T20:55:40","modified_gmt":"2018-04-17T01:55:40","slug":"what-did-you-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2018\/20180416-18546.htm","title":{"rendered":"What did you do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If I&#8217;ve been asked once, I&#8217;ve been asked a dozen times.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What did you do differently this time around?&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>What they&#8217;re really asking is, &#8220;Why didn&#8217;t you get preeclampsia this time?&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>The answer to the question as asked is that I didn&#8217;t do anything I &#8220;should&#8221; have. I ate what sounded good (precious little) instead of eating careful balanced meals like I did with the other two. I barely exercised instead of exercising diligently like I did with the other two. I didn&#8217;t plan for or expect a normal birth. If preeclampsia were a matter of human control, I would have been more likely to have gotten it with Beth-Ellen than with the other two. <\/p>\n<p>(Incidentally, the one preventative action with any good evidence behind it is taking a baby aspirin during pregnancy &#8211; and I did that with both Louis and Beth-Ellen, with vastly different outcomes.)<\/p>\n<p>The answer to the real question is simple. <\/p>\n<p>God willed it. <\/p>\n<p>It was God&#8217;s grace that gave me preeclampsia with Tirzah Mae and Louis &#8211; and God&#8217;s grace that gave me a normal pregnancy with Beth-Ellen. <\/p>\n<p>What did I do? <\/p>\n<p>Nothing. <\/p>\n<p>God did everything, in His inscrutable wisdom. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If I&#8217;ve been asked once, I&#8217;ve been asked a dozen times. &#8220;What did you do differently this time around?&#8221; What they&#8217;re really asking is, &#8220;Why didn&#8217;t you get preeclampsia this time?&#8221; The answer to the question as asked is that I didn&#8217;t do anything I &#8220;should&#8221; have. I ate what sounded good (precious little) instead &#8230; <a title=\"What did you do?\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2018\/20180416-18546.htm\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">What did you do?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[1290],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18546"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18546"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18546\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18547,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18546\/revisions\/18547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18546"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18546"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18546"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}