{"id":2579,"date":"2010-05-07T10:26:55","date_gmt":"2010-05-07T15:26:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=2579"},"modified":"2010-05-07T10:26:55","modified_gmt":"2010-05-07T15:26:55","slug":"my-great-aunts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100507-2579.htm","title":{"rendered":"My GREAT Aunts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Cook Clan, to which I belong, is a clan that is blessed with women.<\/p>\n<p>Of my mother&#8217;s eleven siblings, nine of them are sisters.<\/p>\n<p>So I grew up in a world dominated by aunts (although they managed to bring not a few men into the fold as in-laws.)<\/p>\n<p>Some of my earliest childhood memories are of taking romps with a whole passel of aunts, attending the wedding of one aunt or the other, picking up an aunt from her university classes.<\/p>\n<p>My aunts are all smart, brilliant even.  The Cook girls were almost universally valedictorians of their class.  Most of them went to the University on academic scholarships.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"images\/20100507-1.jpg\" alt=\"The Cook family, Christmas 1984\" height=\"300\" width=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><i>The Cook Clan, Christmas 1984<\/i><\/p>\n<p>But it isn&#8217;t their brains or even the fond memories of childhood play that make me declare that I have the greatest aunts in the world.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s Facebook that has convinced me that my aunts are the best.<\/p>\n<p>My aunts read my Facebook stati, the links I post, the blog posts that get automatically transferred as notes.  And they comment with wisdom and humor.<\/p>\n<p>I linked to an article about an amusing medical condition.  An aunt commented her LOL&#8211;and then later privately messaged me.  &#8220;I&#8217;ve been thinking about that article a little more and realized that your younger cousins can see it as well.  It&#8217;s pretty graphic, and I&#8217;m not sure their parents want to have to explain those things.&#8221;  She was absolutely right&#8211;and I never would have thought of it.  I removed the link and, thanks to her wisdom, spared my younger cousins from seeing something inappropriate.<\/p>\n<p>I spill my heart, share some of the difficulties I&#8217;ve been experiencing&#8211;and an aunt comments just to say &#8220;I feel you.&#8221;  When I demonstrate inappropriate thinking, an aunt steps in to lovingly rebuke me, encouraging me to be compassionate towards myself.  When I comment on her stati, an aunt responds with an affirmation &#8220;Bekah, maybe you should stay in school and get that PhD. I can see you being a professor.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I mention the &#8220;fertility charm&#8221; I received as a gift, stating that I won&#8217;t be wearing it as I&#8217;m lacking certain prerequisites.  An aunt comments to say that there are more ways to be fertile than just having babies.  &#8220;And I would say Rebekah you are very full of fruit, in the Godly way!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>What a blessing to have aunts who are full of wisdom and encouragement&#8211;and who are willing to share it so freely.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"images\/20100507-2.jpg\" alt=\"Cook girls, Thanksgiving 2009\" height=\"300\" width=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><i>Some of my aunts in their traditional kitchen cabal,<br \/>\ndiscussing some important issue of the day<br \/>\nThanksgiving 2009<\/i><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;&#8230;the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things&#8211;that they admonish the young women to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.&#8221;<br \/>\n<i>Titus 2:3-5<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I am so grateful to have such wonderful aunts, who fear God and seek to follow His ways&#8211;and who encourage me to do the same.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Cook Clan, to which I belong, is a clan that is blessed with women. Of my mother&#8217;s eleven siblings, nine of them are sisters. So I grew up in a world dominated by aunts (although they managed to bring not a few men into the fold as in-laws.) Some of my earliest childhood memories &#8230; <a title=\"My GREAT Aunts\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100507-2579.htm\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">My GREAT Aunts<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[6,9,21,24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2579"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2579"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2579\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2579"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2579"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2579"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}