{"id":3170,"date":"2010-06-17T07:30:53","date_gmt":"2010-06-17T12:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=3170"},"modified":"2010-06-17T07:30:53","modified_gmt":"2010-06-17T12:30:53","slug":"thankful-thursday-a-week-of-wedding-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100617-3170.htm","title":{"rendered":"Thankful Thursday: A Week of Wedding Work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>I&#8217;m thankful for having my one of my favorite roles in the wedding of some of my favorite people.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m my future-sister-in-law&#8217;s &#8220;personal attendant&#8221;&#8211;aka, last-minute-detail person.  And I absolutely love it.  My week has been filled with the detail stuff I adore (and it doesn&#8217;t hurt that I&#8217;m doing it for the girl I&#8217;ve had the privilege of walking alongside in the faith for the past eight or so years&#8211;and the brother I&#8217;ve liked for almost as long :-P)<\/p>\n<p><b>Today I&#8217;m thankful for&#8230;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;.Sunday&#8217;s terrific <b><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100613-3113.htm\">dance party<\/a><\/b> arranged to help my brothers learn some dance skills before the big day<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;that my brothers humored me with lots of <b>mildly embarrassing photos<\/b> of themselves with the bride-to-be&#8211;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"images\/20100617-1.jpg\" alt=\"Debbie being hugged by the John's\" height=\"400\" width=\"300\" class=\"aligncenter\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8211;the groom-to-be&#8211;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"images\/20100617-2.jpg\" alt=\"Steve hugging Daniel and Debbie\" height=\"300\" width=\"400\" class=\"aligncenter\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8211;and even with their father.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"images\/20100617-3.jpg\" alt=\"John kissing Dad\" height=\"300\" width=\"400\" class=\"aligncenter\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for being able to <b>visit with Joanna<\/b> while I altered the flower girl&#8217;s dress and she sewed a label on the quilt we made together for the couple.  (The photo shows the finished alteration&#8211;I removed a zipper and added the laced backing so the bodice would fit the flower girl who&#8217;d outgrown it.)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"images\/20100617-4.jpg\" alt=\"Laced backing on flower girl dress\" height=\"400\" width=\"300\" class=\"aligncenter\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for another week of stimulating <b>book discussion<\/b> with the group I joined on a whim last week.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for a collection of great <b>photos and video<\/b> to use in preparing a slide show to embarrass the happy couple at the rehearsal dinner. (Thanks to everyone who donated pictures either directly, or vicariously through Facebook&#8211;special thanks to MARY!)<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for <b>an interlude<\/b> from wedding work to attempt to finish <i>Are Miraculous Gifts for Today?: Four Views<\/i>  (I ended up finishing only about two-thirds before my brain fried and I had to return it and get my shopping done&#8211;but the process was mentally stimulating.)<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for an <b>early-morning Walmart run<\/b> (2 am) and the fellow who let me go in front of him in line.  (Must assemble that &#8220;every-eventuality&#8221; pre-wedding kit.)<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for an <b>easy awakening<\/b> at 7:30 despite the prior night&#8217;s late night of miracle-reading and Walmart-running<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for a <b>clean house<\/b> that I somehow managed to conjure despite the busyness of the week (Ah, I love how a clean house puts my mind at ease.)<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for a <b>productive discussion<\/b> in our ladies fellowship discussing Joshua Harris&#8217;s <i>Dug Down Deep<\/i>.  (As a result, I think my mom has now joined my dad in thinking that I&#8217;ve turned Calvinist.)<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for an effective, if not quite efficient, <b>church set up<\/b> and decorating day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"images\/20100617-5.jpg\" alt=\"Church set up\" height=\"400\" width=\"300\" class=\"aligncenter\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for a <b>lesson on how girls should hit guys<\/b>&#8230;and how they should not.  (This impromptu session was quite informative.  Anyone who knows my brother Tim should ask for a run-down.  The basic premise is that girls should be VERY cautious when hitting guys because guys can&#8217;t hit back.  And they can&#8217;t exactly politely ask a girl to stop hitting them just because it, well, hurts.  So hit rarely&#8211;and when you do, hit at the fleshy part of the shoulder where the risk of &#8220;hurt&#8221; is low.)<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;for <b>plans for more wedding mania<\/b> in the next two days (Today: set up and decorate reception hall, attend rehearsal, attend rehearsal dinner, present couple with quilt, unveil embarrassing slide show, pool party at hotel.  Tomorrow: purchase and arrange extra flowers, &#8220;cater&#8221; lunch to attendants and the like, dress Debbie, family and bridal party photos, hand off car decorating supplies, wedding, reception, clean up after reception. Saturday: clean up church.)<\/p>\n<p>And in the end?  I&#8217;ll be officially related to one of my favorite families in the world!  I can&#8217;t say how much I have been blessed by friendship with the Brunks over the years&#8211;discipling Debbie and then Joanna through high school, praying on Sunday afternoons at their house, theological discussions with HJ and Kris over dinner, discussing <i>A Tale of Two Cities<\/i> with John, quilting and reading with Joanna, ribbing Debbie endlessly about my brother.  God has been good to us in bringing the Brunks into our family.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/category\/thankfulness\/thankful-thursday\"><img loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Thankful Thursday banner\" src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/images\/buttons\/thankfulthursday.jpg\" title=\"Thankful Thursday banner\" class=\"aligncenter\" width=\"400\" height=\"133\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m thankful for having my one of my favorite roles in the wedding of some of my favorite people. I&#8217;m my future-sister-in-law&#8217;s &#8220;personal attendant&#8221;&#8211;aka, last-minute-detail person. And I absolutely love it. My week has been filled with the detail stuff I adore (and it doesn&#8217;t hurt that I&#8217;m doing it for the girl I&#8217;ve had &#8230; <a title=\"Thankful Thursday: A Week of Wedding Work\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100617-3170.htm\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Thankful Thursday: A Week of Wedding Work<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3170"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3170"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3170\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}