{"id":4263,"date":"2010-09-11T11:19:50","date_gmt":"2010-09-11T16:19:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=4263"},"modified":"2010-09-11T11:19:50","modified_gmt":"2010-09-11T16:19:50","slug":"this-ones-stolen-from-carissa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100911-4263.htm","title":{"rendered":"This one&#8217;s stolen from Carissa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>So tell me about your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I died and my life is hidden with Christ in God. (Col. 3:3)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who do you have texts from?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Joshua, Steve, Facebook, Dad, Anna, Daniel, Johnna, Mom, Timothy, Grace, John <\/p>\n<p><strong>What&#8217;s the last thing you touched, other than your computer?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My phone to see who I might have texts from :-)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who was the last person you had a conversation with on the phone?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Anna<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quote from a song that&#8217;s in your head?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh.  It&#8217;s a Chris Tomlin song =)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Have you faced any of your fears lately?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sorta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What did your last text say, and what does it have to do with?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ll be there&#8221;&#8211;telling my brother I&#8217;ll come over to his house to watch the Nebraska game today.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you feel about girls smoking?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I feel like <i>anyone<\/i> smoking is irresponsible and unhealthy.  At the same time, I recognize the difficulties of breaking addictions and try to receive smokers (as all others) with grace and acceptance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you prefer the ocean or pool?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gimme the ocean any day!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Are you outgoing or more shy?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d say I&#8217;m more outgoing&#8211;but I do require a certain bit of alone time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Are you wearing jeans right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nope.  But I did wear jeans yesterday ;-)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Did you sleep in past noon today?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No way.  I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve done that in five years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Would you ever get a tattoo?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Probably not.  I don&#8217;t really enjoy pain that much&#8211;and tattoos are permanent.  Now, henna?  Maybe.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you miss your past?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No&#8211;why miss the past when you can live in the present and look forward to the future?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Would you be able to date someone who doesn&#8217;t make you laugh?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are you talking &#8220;go on a date with&#8221; or &#8220;date long term&#8221;?  &#8216;Cause I&#8217;d go on a date with&#8211;after all, how do I know whether he makes me laugh unless I get to know him?  Now, after getting to know him, if he doesn&#8217;t make me laugh every so often&#8230; (Then again, I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s anyone I&#8217;ve really gotten to know who didn&#8217;t eventually make me laugh.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Have you argued with anyone today?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No<\/p>\n<p><strong>Where is the biggest scar on your body and from what?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Not sure&#8211;I haven&#8217;t got a lot of scars, and the ones I do have are pretty little.  Probably either the scar from the mole I had removed (I must have waited too long to get the stitches removed) or the one under my chin from the time I fell flat on my face in the street and took a chunk out of my chin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When was the last time someone held your hand? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Someone held mine or I held someone&#8217;s?  I held Gracie&#8217;s on Monday after she learned that her good friend&#8217;s mother died.  It&#8217;s been awhile since someone held <em>my<\/em> hand.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is there one person you look at and automatically smile?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Actually, several.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who&#8217;s jacket did you wear last?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mine.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is there something you&#8217;re looking forward to?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sure.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What are you sitting on right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A chair.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What are your initials?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>RMM<\/p>\n<p><strong>What was the last thing you wore that was black?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My shoes.  Ballet flats.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have alcohol in your house?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes.  Ridiculous amounts for the small amount I actually consume.  I&#8217;ll probably have it until the day I die (unless I give it away to my brothers)<\/p>\n<p><strong>When did you go to bed last night?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1:30ish&#8211;I was stove-jobbing on a new planner (but it&#8217;s almost done!)<\/p>\n<p><strong> Do you have somewhere you hide things you don&#8217;t want anyone else to find?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is there beer in your refrigerator at the moment?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not really a beer fan&#8211;and my roommate doesn&#8217;t drink.  Nah.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Have you ever been in the shower when the power went out?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No.  That&#8217;s an odd question.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Where do you like to go when you want to be alone?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The library or a park or my room.  Wherever no one&#8217;s at :-)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is there anyone you have been avoiding lately?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Not consciously.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you still keep in touch with your most recent ex?<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Yes, I guess you could say that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What are your plans for the evening?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Grading papers.  Writing book reviews.  Cleaning house.  Reading a book.  Likely something &#8220;boring&#8221; (that I find absolutely wonderful.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>What was the last movie you watched?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My family and other animals.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Did you watch that last movie in the theater?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No&#8211;I watched it at my parents&#8217; home theatre with my sister-in-law<\/p>\n<p><strong>What was the last song you listened to?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The Black Gate is Closed&#8221; from The Two Towers soundtrack<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who was the last person to give you any kind of advice?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My dad<\/p>\n<p><strong>What would happen if you were locked in a room with your last ex?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Um-I&#8217;m not sure.  We would try to get out?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you remember what your last dream was about?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I thought I did, but now I can&#8217;t remember.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What do you think of the last person of the opposite sex that texted you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Steve?  He&#8217;s like a brother.  He&#8217;s been my brother&#8217;s best friend for the past dozen years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How tall are you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>5&#8217;10&#8221; or so<\/p>\n<p><strong>The person you have the strongest feelings for dies, you care?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Duh.  Isn&#8217;t that kind of obvious?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you want anything right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes.  But I am not in want of anything right now.  My God has graciously provided all my needs&#8211;and many of my desires.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you still talk to your ex?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Didn&#8217;t you ask this already?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is there anybody you wish you could be spending time with right now? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you believe what comes around goes around?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s sorta a truism, isn&#8217;t it?  If something is traveling a circular path (&#8220;around&#8221;), it will both come towards a point and go away from the point.  As far as the &#8220;you get what you dish&#8221; idea, eh.  There&#8217;s some Biblical support for that (Luke 6:38), but why use a cliche if you can help it?  Find some real Scripture to use.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How&#8217;s 2010 been for you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been&#8230;challenging.  Emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, professionally.  You name it.  It&#8217;s been tough.  But God has been faithful and I trust in His sovereign plan.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Will you be in a relationship in the next couple months?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You mean dating, right?  I don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you lose interest in people easily?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think so.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Delete a year of your life, or start over in a new town?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll start over in a new town.  Planning on doing so in January anyway.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Any part of you sad at all?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes-I&#8217;ve got a melancholy streak, and memes often seem designed to bring those out.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What is stressing you out most right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The uncertainty of life.  Wanting what I can&#8217;t have.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Today&#8217;s date?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>September 11, 2010&#8211;9 years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who did you text the most last night?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t text anyone last night<\/p>\n<p><strong>What color are your eyes?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Blue<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you think if you died, that the last person you texted would even care?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes, he probably would.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who was the last person you physically hit?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One of my brothers, I&#8217;m sure.  (Hopefully John&#8211;after that bruise he gave me on Sunday&#8230;.)<\/p>\n<p>(The bruise was accidental, by the way&#8211;he&#8217;s really a great guy&#8211;just really strong&#8211;and I bruise easily&#8211;and he was just trying to startle me.  But I totally looked like a battered woman.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who was the last person you hugged?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gracie.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you wish anyone in particular was still in your life?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sure.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who were you with the last time you went to the mall?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No one.  I sat and crocheted, practicing aloneness in the midst of a crowd.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ever liked someone older than you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yep.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I bet your going to kiss someone tonight, right?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Probably not.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So tell me about your life. I died and my life is hidden with Christ in God. (Col. 3:3) Who do you have texts from? Joshua, Steve, Facebook, Dad, Anna, Daniel, Johnna, Mom, Timothy, Grace, John What&#8217;s the last thing you touched, other than your computer? 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