{"id":4327,"date":"2010-09-18T10:57:20","date_gmt":"2010-09-18T15:57:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=4327"},"modified":"2010-09-18T10:57:20","modified_gmt":"2010-09-18T15:57:20","slug":"time-for-a-little-gender-game","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100918-4327.htm","title":{"rendered":"Time for a little gender game&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>And yes, I just used the word &#8220;gender&#8221;.  Because this time I&#8217;m actually talking about the social constructs of male and female rather than the biological differences between male and female (for the most part).<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;First Things&#8221; has a list of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firstthings.com\/blogs\/firstthoughts\/2010\/08\/06\/50-things-a-woman-should-be-able-to-do\/\" target=\"_blank\">50 Things a Woman Should be Able to Do<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firstthings.com\/blogs\/firstthoughts\/2010\/08\/13\/50-things-a-woman-should-never-do\" target=\"_blank\">50 Things a Woman Should Never Do<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They also have a nice little list of <a href=http:\/\/www.firstthings.com\/blogs\/firstthoughts\/2010\/07\/23\/50-things-a-man-should-be-able-to-do\/\" target=\"_blank\">50 Things a Man Should be Able to Do<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firstthings.com\/blogs\/firstthoughts\/2010\/07\/30\/50-things-a-man-should-never-do\/\" target=\"_blank\">50 Things a Man Should Never Do<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Just for the record, I don&#8217;t agree with everything on the lists.  But I do think they&#8217;re kind of fun\/funny.  <\/p>\n<p>So here&#8217;s my game.  Choose a gender (whichever you prefer to identify with) and give yourself two points for every item you have done on the &#8220;50 Things a ___ Should be able to do&#8221;.  Now take away two points for every item you have done on the &#8220;50 Things a ___ Should Never Do&#8221;.  <\/p>\n<p>Then tell us your points and give some comments.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here, I&#8217;ll start.<\/strong><br \/>\nI&#8217;m a woman<\/p>\n<p> + (28&#215;2) &#8211; (6&#215;2) = 44<\/p>\n<p><em>Okay, so those first fifteen&#8211;the Proverbs 31 ones?  So not fair.<\/p>\n<p>So I don&#8217;t do much that I shouldn&#8217;t&#8211;but I ought to do tons more.<\/p>\n<p>Yep, that pretty much describes me, right folks? :-)<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p>After performing so awfully as a woman, I&#8217;m wondering if I&#8217;d make a better man.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Me as a man<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>+(22&#215;2) &#8211; (5&#215;2) = 34<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, um.  This is ridiculous.  I&#8217;m a rather accomplished woman, but I only score a 44 on the woman one.  And I&#8217;d make an AWFUL man (just ask my brothers), yet I can score a 34 on the man one?  There&#8217;s something wrong with this picture.<\/p>\n<p>Can anybody beat me for femininity or masculinity (as defined by this silly little game I just made up?)<\/p>\n<p>Give it a try and leave your score in the comments.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And yes, I just used the word &#8220;gender&#8221;. Because this time I&#8217;m actually talking about the social constructs of male and female rather than the biological differences between male and female (for the most part). &#8220;First Things&#8221; has a list of 50 Things a Woman Should be Able to Do and 50 Things a Woman &#8230; <a title=\"Time for a little gender game&#8230;\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100918-4327.htm\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Time for a little gender game&#8230;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4327"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4327"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4327\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4327"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4327"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4327"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}