{"id":584,"date":"2008-08-03T11:04:50","date_gmt":"2008-08-03T16:04:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=584"},"modified":"2008-08-03T11:04:50","modified_gmt":"2008-08-03T16:04:50","slug":"time-for-an-upgrade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2008\/20080803-584.htm","title":{"rendered":"Time for an upgrade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I sat down for a moment waiting for the shower to be free.  Rebekah said &#8220;You should wear your hair down today.  It&#8217;s so pretty when it&#8217;s down.&#8221; I dutifully put it into a bun so it wouldn&#8217;t get wet in  the shower.  If I washed it, it wouldn&#8217;t be dry in time for church&#8211;and the pretty waves from yesterday&#8217;s braid would be gone.<\/p>\n<p>I walked back through the living room after my shower.  &#8220;Is that the only skirt you have?&#8221; Rebekah asked.  Apparently I wore the same one to church last week.  &#8220;Do you ever wear long jean skirts?&#8221; she asked.  I said that I have in the past, although I don&#8217;t own one right now.  She has a jean skirt, she said, but it probably wouldn&#8217;t fit me.  I took the hint and offered to try it on.  It fit&#8211;so I&#8217;m now wearing a jean skirt and have my wavy hair hanging free.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t you have any dress shoes?&#8221;  I do, just not here.  I thought books were a higher priority than shoes on the trip down.  Shoes take up so much room&#8211;so I have only tennis shoes, flip-flops, and a pair of lightweight old shoes to wear if we go to the river.  Much to Rebekah&#8217;s disappointment, she could not fix my shoe situation.  My feet are much to big for me to borrow any of her shoes.  She conceded that the flip-flops are the best choice, for what I have available.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you ever wear makeup?&#8221;  Yes, I do.  Pretty regularly when I&#8217;m at home, actually.  But once again, I had to pay attention to my priorities in packing.  I had a weight limit&#8211;40 lbs for the carry-on, 50 lbs for the checked baggage.  I had size limits&#8211;my luggage had to fit within certain dimensions.  And there&#8217;s the government&#8217;s rules about carry-on liquids, gels, and the like having to fit within a quart sized Ziploc bag.  Oh, and there was that little thing about bringing books.  Books got me awfully close to the weight limits on both pieces of luggage; hand sanitizer and medications got me close to the limit on the liquids.  Makeup just didn&#8217;t fit into the equation.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I have makeup.  Maybe some eyeliner?&#8221;  I hated to let her down, but with my allergies and the hypersensitivity of my eyes to developing infections, I just knew that wouldn&#8217;t be an option.<\/p>\n<p>I showed her some pictures this morning on Facebook&#8211;wanted to introduce her to my family.  She saw my &#8220;Posh Spice&#8221; pictures and said wistfully, &#8220;You wear such pretty dresses in the pictures.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Rebekah loves beauty and places such great store in looking good.  I almost feel bad that I didn&#8217;t bring along more &#8220;pretty&#8221; stuff.  Maybe it is time for an upgrade.  But then again, maybe not.  I&#8217;m here to teach, not to be look good.  Brains are more valuable than beauty in this instance.  And maybe, just maybe, it wouldn&#8217;t harm Rebekah to see that the externals&#8211;makeup and clothing&#8211;aren&#8217;t what make a woman great, but that greatness is found in knowing God.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I sat down for a moment waiting for the shower to be free. Rebekah said &#8220;You should wear your hair down today. It&#8217;s so pretty when it&#8217;s down.&#8221; I dutifully put it into a bun so it wouldn&#8217;t get wet in the shower. 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