{"id":6428,"date":"2011-02-14T08:13:12","date_gmt":"2011-02-14T14:13:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=6428"},"modified":"2011-02-14T08:13:12","modified_gmt":"2011-02-14T14:13:12","slug":"wiw-a-day-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2011\/20110214-6428.htm","title":{"rendered":"WiW: A Day of &#8220;Love&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarah.wordpress.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"The Week in Words\" src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/images\/buttons\/weekinwords.jpg\"  class=\"aligncenter\" height=\"207\" width=\"277\"  \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>February 14 has come again&#8211;and with it, scads of single women hole up in their houses to pout over chocolates they&#8217;ve bought themselves (or else they gather together to collectively bemoan\/celebrate their singleness, preferably in someone&#8217;s home so the outside world doesn&#8217;t have to see their desperation.)<\/p>\n<p>I did the latter last night (although we only spent about ten minutes bemoaning&#8211;and that brought up by the one married woman in our midst!) <\/p>\n<p>Today, I&#8217;ll spend the day working as usual, hopefully giving God thanks for the rich life He&#8217;s given me right now-and trusting that His plan for my future is just right.<\/p>\n<p>I was blessed this past week to read <a href=\"http:\/\/monicaelaine1.wordpress.com\/2011\/02\/07\/961\/\" target=\"_blank\">Monica&#8217;s encouragement<\/a> to single women:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Remember Abraham, who waited over 25 years for the fulfillment of the promise \u2013 when he tried to make it happen on his own, he created a whole mess that carries on in the Middle East even into the present day. <strong>God still fulfilled His promise to Abraham, however, and will fulfill every promise to us today<\/strong> (I Corinthians 1:20). <strong>If we hold onto those promises He has made, and resist the passions of the world, we will experience the joy of peaceful obedience to the One who satisfies the soul.<\/strong>&#8220;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Despite our teasing about maybe &#8220;just happening&#8221; to have our cars break down outside of the Christian school that (allegedly) has two single male teachers, I know that it is better to wait on the Lord&#8211;and to trust that He will fulfill my every need and conform my every desire to His.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>My brother Daniel has encouraged me to post links to last year&#8217;s &#8220;Love Month&#8221;, lest any readers should benefit from my experiences and expertise (Hah!) in the world of singleness and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>So, without further ado: <strong>Love Month 2010<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100201-1272.htm\"><strong>Talking Back: Love Month<\/strong> (An introduction)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100201-1241.htm\"><strong>Only Human<\/strong> (How no man or woman can fulfill what God Himself intended to fill)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100202-1278.htm\"><strong>Do you believe in fairy tales?<\/strong> (A look at the ultimate in love stories&#8211;God&#8217;s pursuit of His church)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100202-1282.htm\"><strong>Prince Song<\/strong> (A song about the fairy tale of God&#8217;s pursuit of His church)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100203-1280.htm\"><strong>Beyond the Fairy Tale<\/strong> (The true story of God&#8217;s pursuit)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100204-1307.htm\"><strong>The Errant Bride<\/strong> (God&#8217;s Old Testament pursuit of His errant bride)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100204-1480.htm\"><strong>Beloved<\/strong> (A song a friend mentioned)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100205-1452.htm\"><strong>Accepting the Proposal<\/strong> (An invitation to join in the Great Romance)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100206-1258.htm\"><strong>Embracing the &#8220;Gift&#8221;<\/strong> (on the gift of singleness)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100207-1328.htm\"><strong>The Journey to Contentment<\/strong> (part of my own story)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100208-1333.htm\"><strong>Chasing after my wild-man lover<\/strong> (part 2 of my own story)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100209-1536.htm\"><strong>I don&#8217;t feel<\/strong> (on learning contentment when you don&#8217;t feel content)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100211-1554.htm\"><strong>Always a guest, never a bride<\/strong> (a guest post by my sister)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100213-1291.htm\"><strong>Skills in Singleness<\/strong> (What to do during the wait)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100214-1573.htm\"><strong>Absolute Purit<\/strong>y (what it means to be pure)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100215-1246.htm\"><strong>Men are pigs, don&#8217;t encourage them<\/strong> (about modesty)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100216-1251.htm\"><strong>Temple Ornaments<\/strong> (a second look at modesty)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100217-1616.htm\"><strong>Ladies and Gentlemen<\/strong> (on complementarianism)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100218-1624.htm\"><strong>Fulfilling our Roles<\/strong> (living in the roles God has given us)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100219-1642.htm\"><strong>Purity of Heart<\/strong> (my Mom guest posts about lust)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100221-1684.htm\"><strong>Taking issue with lust<\/strong> (my own post about lust)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100224-1721.htm\"><strong>It&#8217;s hard to stop a train<\/strong> (Avoiding fornication)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100225-1256.htm\"><strong>Dating isn&#8217;t for kids<\/strong> (How to know if you&#8217;re ready to date)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100226-1253.htm\"><strong>No Regret Relationships<\/strong> (my thoughts on how to have them)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100227-1744.htm\"><strong>Breaking up is hard to do<\/strong> (some tips on how to do it for the glory of God)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2010\/20100228-1753.htm\"><strong>I&#8217;ve LOVED it <\/strong>(a little wrap-up)<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Please feel free to comment on any of these posts. Even though they&#8217;re a year old, I&#8217;d love to continue to foster dialogue about singleness, dating, and purity.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em>Don&#8217;t forget to take a look at <a href=\"http:\/\/barbarah.wordpress.com\/2011\/02\/14\/the-week-in-words-53\/\" target=\"_blank\">Barbara H&#8217;s<\/a> meme &#8220;The Week in Words&#8221;, where bloggers collect quotes they&#8217;ve read throughout the week. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>February 14 has come again&#8211;and with it, scads of single women hole up in their houses to pout over chocolates they&#8217;ve bought themselves (or else they gather together to collectively bemoan\/celebrate their singleness, preferably in someone&#8217;s home so the outside world doesn&#8217;t have to see their desperation.) 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