{"id":6865,"date":"2011-04-14T06:30:51","date_gmt":"2011-04-14T11:30:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=6865"},"modified":"2011-04-14T06:30:51","modified_gmt":"2011-04-14T11:30:51","slug":"notta-piranha","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2011\/20110414-6865.htm","title":{"rendered":"Notta Piranha"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My posts recently&#8211;and some of the comments I&#8217;ve been making elsewhere&#8211;might lead you to believe that I&#8217;m in full piranha mode.<\/p>\n<p>Just waiting to sink my teeth into the nearest available fish (except for the much-sighed-over lack of fish in this particular sea.)<\/p>\n<p>But I&#8217;m notta piranha.<\/p>\n<p>Honest.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not racing out, ready to hook the nearest single male into marrying me. <\/p>\n<p>I understand that most often friendship comes before dating, which comes before marriage.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m okay with that.<\/p>\n<p>But unlike some of my friends (who are at different stages of life than I), I am not looking simply for some good guy friends, some &#8220;brothers&#8221; to hang out with.<\/p>\n<p>I am looking for a husband.<\/p>\n<p>Does this mean that I&#8217;m going to write off the guys who I don&#8217;t deem as marriage material and choose not to be their friends?<\/p>\n<p>Absolutely not.<\/p>\n<p>Brothers are wonderful. Guy friends are nice. It&#8217;s just that I&#8217;m unwilling to hide what I really want. I don&#8217;t want to pretend that I&#8217;m just interested in friendship.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m notta piranha, I&#8217;ve just tired of giving the impression that I&#8217;m justa pal.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My posts recently&#8211;and some of the comments I&#8217;ve been making elsewhere&#8211;might lead you to believe that I&#8217;m in full piranha mode. Just waiting to sink my teeth into the nearest available fish (except for the much-sighed-over lack of fish in this particular sea.) But I&#8217;m notta piranha. Honest. I&#8217;m not racing out, ready to hook &#8230; <a title=\"Notta Piranha\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2011\/20110414-6865.htm\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Notta Piranha<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[21,22],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6865"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6865"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6865\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6865"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6865"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6865"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}