{"id":9157,"date":"2012-03-09T07:06:02","date_gmt":"2012-03-09T13:06:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/?p=9157"},"modified":"2012-03-09T07:06:02","modified_gmt":"2012-03-09T13:06:02","slug":"wiw-she-built-us-cakes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2012\/20120309-9157.htm","title":{"rendered":"Flashback: She built us cakes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Prompt #10: &#8220;What were your birthday cakes like when you were growing up? Were they homemade or store-bought?&#8221;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>We always had two cakes for every birthday&#8211;the cake Mom made and the cake Grandma Menter made.<\/p>\n<p>Mom&#8217;s cake was made on the day of our birthday&#8211;one of the old family recipes to go along with our favorite meals. Grandma&#8217;s Chocolate Cake or Lazy Daisy Cake or Applesauce Cake with Boiled Brown Sugar Frosting. Delicious cakes. Lick your lips cakes. Cakes where the birthday girl felt the specialest for getting to choose her piece first (of course, she picked the one with extra frosting!)<\/p>\n<p>Those cakes generally looked ordinary, served up in the same pan they were baked in. No fancy furbelows here, just grandly tasty cakes.<\/p>\n<p>Grandma&#8217;s cakes, on the other hand, were take-em-or-leave-em in the taste department. They weren&#8217;t bad, they were just ordinary. Cakes baked from cake mixes. White cake or yellow cake or occasionally a confetti cake for good measure.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, we eagerly awaited the semi-annual visits to Bellevue, where a whole counter would be devoted to the cakes. It was always cakes in plural because we always combined all the birthdays for the month into one celebration. January had four cakes. March had three. July had two. October had three. (I&#8217;m missing some cousins in there&#8211;a September and a November that I can&#8217;t remember exactly. Did we smush those two in with the October birthdays? Or did they have their own celebrations?)<\/p>\n<p>At any rate, when we got to Grandma&#8217;s house, a counter (or sometimes the entire kitchen table) would be devoted to the brilliantly shaped and decorated cakes, glorious on their bed of aluminum foil.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"ngg-galleryoverview ngg-slideshow\"\n\t id=\"ngg-slideshow-2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb-17190644450\"\n     data-gallery-id=\"2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb\"\n     style=\"max-width: 600px; max-height: 400px;\">\n\n \t<div id=\"ngg-image-0\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/01.jpg\"\n           title=\"Like many newborns (and especially preemies), Tirzah Mae had jaundice and needed to be under bili lights.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/01.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_01.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1260\"\n           data-title=\"Tirzah Mae under the bili lights\"\n           data-description=\"Like many newborns (and especially preemies), Tirzah Mae had jaundice and needed to be under bili lights.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1260'\n                 title=\"Like many newborns (and especially preemies), Tirzah Mae had jaundice and needed to be under bili lights.\"\n                 alt=\"Tirzah Mae under the bili lights\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/01.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-1\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/02.jpg\"\n           title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s white blood cell count was very low, making her potentially even more susceptible to infection than usual - which meant we needed to wear gloves and gown (eventually a mask) when we cared for her.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/02.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_02.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1261\"\n           data-title=\"Holding Tirzah Mae\"\n           data-description=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s white blood cell count was very low, making her potentially even more susceptible to infection than usual - which meant we needed to wear gloves and gown (eventually a mask) when we cared for her.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1261'\n                 title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s white blood cell count was very low, making her potentially even more susceptible to infection than usual - which meant we needed to wear gloves and gown (eventually a mask) when we cared for her.\"\n                 alt=\"Holding Tirzah Mae\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/02.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-2\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/03.jpg\"\n           title=\"Even at just a day old (32 weeks, 2 days gestation), Tirzah Mae&#039;s eyes are bright and alert\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/03.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_03.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1262\"\n           data-title=\"Bright eyes\"\n           data-description=\"Even at just a day old (32 weeks, 2 days gestation), Tirzah Mae&#039;s eyes are bright and alert\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1262'\n                 title=\"Even at just a day old (32 weeks, 2 days gestation), Tirzah Mae&#039;s eyes are bright and alert\"\n                 alt=\"Bright eyes\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/03.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-3\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/04.jpg\"\n           title=\"\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/04.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_04.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1263\"\n           data-title=\"Thrilled to be holding my baby\"\n           data-description=\"\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1263'\n                 title=\"\"\n                 alt=\"Thrilled to be holding my baby\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/04.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-4\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/05.jpg\"\n           title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s IVs moved frequently, but her head was a popular spot - she couldn&#039;t pull it out as easily when it was in her head rather than, say, her arm or leg.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/05.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_05.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1264\"\n           data-title=\"IV running through her head\"\n           data-description=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s IVs moved frequently, but her head was a popular spot - she couldn&#039;t pull it out as easily when it was in her head rather than, say, her arm or leg.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1264'\n                 title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s IVs moved frequently, but her head was a popular spot - she couldn&#039;t pull it out as easily when it was in her head rather than, say, her arm or leg.\"\n                 alt=\"IV running through her head\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/05.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-5\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/06.jpg\"\n           title=\"\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/06.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_06.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1265\"\n           data-title=\"I couldn&#039;t think of anything more precious than my newborn girl\"\n           data-description=\"\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1265'\n                 title=\"\"\n                 alt=\"I couldn&#039;t think of anything more precious than my newborn girl\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/06.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-6\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/07.jpg\"\n           title=\"\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/07.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_07.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1266\"\n           data-title=\"My mom was there with us that first week\"\n           data-description=\"\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1266'\n                 title=\"\"\n                 alt=\"My mom was there with us that first week\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/07.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-7\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/08.jpg\"\n           title=\"Mom was so impressed that Tirzah Mae sucked &quot;like a newborn&quot; even though she was eight weeks early. We initiated breastfeeding before she was a week old.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/08.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_08.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1267\"\n           data-title=\"Tirzah Mae sucks on my mom&#039;s finger\"\n           data-description=\"Mom was so impressed that Tirzah Mae sucked &quot;like a newborn&quot; even though she was eight weeks early. We initiated breastfeeding before she was a week old.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1267'\n                 title=\"Mom was so impressed that Tirzah Mae sucked &quot;like a newborn&quot; even though she was eight weeks early. We initiated breastfeeding before she was a week old.\"\n                 alt=\"Tirzah Mae sucks on my mom&#039;s finger\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/08.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-8\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/09.jpg\"\n           title=\"\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/09.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_09.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1268\"\n           data-title=\"Cradling my baby&#039;s head\"\n           data-description=\"\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1268'\n                 title=\"\"\n                 alt=\"Cradling my baby&#039;s head\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/09.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-9\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/10.jpg\"\n           title=\"As long as Tirzah Mae&#039;s white blood cell count was low, we could only do skin to skin once per day. I let Daniel have his first turn four or five days out.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/10.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_10.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1269\"\n           data-title=\"Skin to skin with papa\"\n           data-description=\"As long as Tirzah Mae&#039;s white blood cell count was low, we could only do skin to skin once per day. I let Daniel have his first turn four or five days out.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1269'\n                 title=\"As long as Tirzah Mae&#039;s white blood cell count was low, we could only do skin to skin once per day. I let Daniel have his first turn four or five days out.\"\n                 alt=\"Skin to skin with papa\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/10.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-10\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/11.jpg\"\n           title=\"As tiny as she was, Tirzah Mae fit right inside my dress, snuggled up against my chest.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/11.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_11.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1270\"\n           data-title=\"Snuggling inside mama&#039;s dress\"\n           data-description=\"As tiny as she was, Tirzah Mae fit right inside my dress, snuggled up against my chest.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1270'\n                 title=\"As tiny as she was, Tirzah Mae fit right inside my dress, snuggled up against my chest.\"\n                 alt=\"Snuggling inside mama&#039;s dress\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/11.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-11\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/12.jpg\"\n           title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s wonderment was so expressive.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/12.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_12.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1271\"\n           data-title=\"Peeking out at papa\"\n           data-description=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s wonderment was so expressive.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1271'\n                 title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s wonderment was so expressive.\"\n                 alt=\"Peeking out at papa\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/12.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-12\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/13.jpg\"\n           title=\"Our friend Rachel knit Tirzah Mae a hat and gave it to us at the first &quot;Happy Food&quot; after Tirzah Mae&#039;s birth.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/13.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_13.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1272\"\n           data-title=\"Wearing her hat from Rachel\"\n           data-description=\"Our friend Rachel knit Tirzah Mae a hat and gave it to us at the first &quot;Happy Food&quot; after Tirzah Mae&#039;s birth.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1272'\n                 title=\"Our friend Rachel knit Tirzah Mae a hat and gave it to us at the first &quot;Happy Food&quot; after Tirzah Mae&#039;s birth.\"\n                 alt=\"Wearing her hat from Rachel\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/13.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-13\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/14.jpg\"\n           title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s Grandma Garcia holds her (and no doubt the two begin scheming about how Tirzah Mae&#039;s first word will be &quot;Grandma&quot; :-) )\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/14.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_14.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1273\"\n           data-title=\"Whispering with Grandma\"\n           data-description=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s Grandma Garcia holds her (and no doubt the two begin scheming about how Tirzah Mae&#039;s first word will be &quot;Grandma&quot; :-) )\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1273'\n                 title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s Grandma Garcia holds her (and no doubt the two begin scheming about how Tirzah Mae&#039;s first word will be &quot;Grandma&quot; :-) )\"\n                 alt=\"Whispering with Grandma\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/14.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-14\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/15.JPG\"\n           title=\"Once Tirzah Mae started &quot;nippling&quot;, Daniel was able to feed her a bottle when he visited in the morning. I breastfed her once a day when I visited in the afternoon.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/15.JPG\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_15.JPG\"\n           data-image-id=\"1274\"\n           data-title=\"Daniel feeds Tirzah Mae\"\n           data-description=\"Once Tirzah Mae started &quot;nippling&quot;, Daniel was able to feed her a bottle when he visited in the morning. I breastfed her once a day when I visited in the afternoon.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1274'\n                 title=\"Once Tirzah Mae started &quot;nippling&quot;, Daniel was able to feed her a bottle when he visited in the morning. I breastfed her once a day when I visited in the afternoon.\"\n                 alt=\"Daniel feeds Tirzah Mae\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/15.JPG\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-15\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/16.JPG\"\n           title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s Grandpa Garcia took a turn (you can see that  we&#039;re no longer practicing reverse isolation with gowns and gloves. After a week or so of that it was clear that she didn&#039;t have any infection so we began a drug to stimulate her body to produce white blood cells. They rapidly recovered and we were out of isolation.)\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/16.JPG\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_16.JPG\"\n           data-image-id=\"1275\"\n           data-title=\"Chatting with Grandpa\"\n           data-description=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s Grandpa Garcia took a turn (you can see that  we&#039;re no longer practicing reverse isolation with gowns and gloves. After a week or so of that it was clear that she didn&#039;t have any infection so we began a drug to stimulate her body to produce white blood cells. They rapidly recovered and we were out of isolation.)\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1275'\n                 title=\"Tirzah Mae&#039;s Grandpa Garcia took a turn (you can see that  we&#039;re no longer practicing reverse isolation with gowns and gloves. After a week or so of that it was clear that she didn&#039;t have any infection so we began a drug to stimulate her body to produce white blood cells. They rapidly recovered and we were out of isolation.)\"\n                 alt=\"Chatting with Grandpa\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/16.JPG\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-16\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/17.JPG\"\n           title=\"Daniel thought it wonderful when I first commented that Tirzah Mae&#039;s smiles were &quot;because of gas&quot;. &quot;That&#039;s my daughter!&quot; smiling about gas.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/17.JPG\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_17.JPG\"\n           data-image-id=\"1276\"\n           data-title=\"Grandma and Grandpa smile at Tirzah Mae\"\n           data-description=\"Daniel thought it wonderful when I first commented that Tirzah Mae&#039;s smiles were &quot;because of gas&quot;. &quot;That&#039;s my daughter!&quot; smiling about gas.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1276'\n                 title=\"Daniel thought it wonderful when I first commented that Tirzah Mae&#039;s smiles were &quot;because of gas&quot;. &quot;That&#039;s my daughter!&quot; smiling about gas.\"\n                 alt=\"Grandma and Grandpa smile at Tirzah Mae\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/17.JPG\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-17\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/18.jpg\"\n           title=\"Six months out, Tirzah Mae still makes this face.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/18.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_18.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1277\"\n           data-title=\"A quizzical expression\"\n           data-description=\"Six months out, Tirzah Mae still makes this face.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1277'\n                 title=\"Six months out, Tirzah Mae still makes this face.\"\n                 alt=\"A quizzical expression\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/18.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-18\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/19.jpg\"\n           title=\"Tirzah Mae was skin and bones, still being fed occasionally through the nasogastric tube you can see in her nose\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/19.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_19.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1278\"\n           data-title=\"You can see the loose skin\"\n           data-description=\"Tirzah Mae was skin and bones, still being fed occasionally through the nasogastric tube you can see in her nose\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1278'\n                 title=\"Tirzah Mae was skin and bones, still being fed occasionally through the nasogastric tube you can see in her nose\"\n                 alt=\"You can see the loose skin\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/19.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-19\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/20.jpg\"\n           title=\"Once she was tolerating full feedings and no longer requiring the IV, Tirzah Mae got to wear clothing. Our families showered down adorable preemie clothes, which we brought into the NICU each morning and took home to wash each evening.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/20.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_20.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1279\"\n           data-title=\"Wearing clothes for the first time\"\n           data-description=\"Once she was tolerating full feedings and no longer requiring the IV, Tirzah Mae got to wear clothing. Our families showered down adorable preemie clothes, which we brought into the NICU each morning and took home to wash each evening.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1279'\n                 title=\"Once she was tolerating full feedings and no longer requiring the IV, Tirzah Mae got to wear clothing. Our families showered down adorable preemie clothes, which we brought into the NICU each morning and took home to wash each evening.\"\n                 alt=\"Wearing clothes for the first time\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/20.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-20\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/21.jpg\"\n           title=\"I don&#039;t think we have any family pictures before this - when Tirzah Mae was about 3 weeks old.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/21.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_21.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1280\"\n           data-title=\"A first family selfie\"\n           data-description=\"I don&#039;t think we have any family pictures before this - when Tirzah Mae was about 3 weeks old.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1280'\n                 title=\"I don&#039;t think we have any family pictures before this - when Tirzah Mae was about 3 weeks old.\"\n                 alt=\"A first family selfie\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/21.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-21\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/22.jpg\"\n           title=\"Tirzah Mae and I spent our afternoons like this, especially after we were given authorization to breastfeed twice a day. I&#039;d arrive at 2 to breastfeed and we&#039;d snuggle until 5 when we&#039;d breastfeed again.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/22.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_22.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1281\"\n           data-title=\"Snuggling\"\n           data-description=\"Tirzah Mae and I spent our afternoons like this, especially after we were given authorization to breastfeed twice a day. I&#039;d arrive at 2 to breastfeed and we&#039;d snuggle until 5 when we&#039;d breastfeed again.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1281'\n                 title=\"Tirzah Mae and I spent our afternoons like this, especially after we were given authorization to breastfeed twice a day. I&#039;d arrive at 2 to breastfeed and we&#039;d snuggle until 5 when we&#039;d breastfeed again.\"\n                 alt=\"Snuggling\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/22.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-22\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/23.jpg\"\n           title=\"There couldn&#039;t be anything sweeter than holding my dear little one close\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/23.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_23.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1282\"\n           data-title=\"Nothing sweeter\"\n           data-description=\"There couldn&#039;t be anything sweeter than holding my dear little one close\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1282'\n                 title=\"There couldn&#039;t be anything sweeter than holding my dear little one close\"\n                 alt=\"Nothing sweeter\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/23.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-23\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/24.jpg\"\n           title=\"Her breathing and heartbeat were still monitored (and she was getting a bit cold and mottled here), but was already doing so much better than when she&#039;d been born.)\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/24.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_24.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1283\"\n           data-title=\"Still monitored\"\n           data-description=\"Her breathing and heartbeat were still monitored (and she was getting a bit cold and mottled here), but was already doing so much better than when she&#039;d been born.)\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1283'\n                 title=\"Her breathing and heartbeat were still monitored (and she was getting a bit cold and mottled here), but was already doing so much better than when she&#039;d been born.)\"\n                 alt=\"Still monitored\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/24.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-24\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/25.jpg\"\n           title=\"We stayed the night in the hospital, feeding her at intervals throughout the night. Then we dressed her, took pictures, and loaded her up to come home at last.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/25.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_25.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1284\"\n           data-title=\"Getting ready to go home\"\n           data-description=\"We stayed the night in the hospital, feeding her at intervals throughout the night. Then we dressed her, took pictures, and loaded her up to come home at last.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1284'\n                 title=\"We stayed the night in the hospital, feeding her at intervals throughout the night. Then we dressed her, took pictures, and loaded her up to come home at last.\"\n                 alt=\"Getting ready to go home\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/25.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-25\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/26.jpg\"\n           title=\"She&#039;d been in the carseat before, for an hour long check on the NICU floor to make sure she could maintain her breathing in the stressful carseat position. But now it was for real, we were on our way home.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/26.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_26.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1285\"\n           data-title=\"Not so sure about the carseat\"\n           data-description=\"She&#039;d been in the carseat before, for an hour long check on the NICU floor to make sure she could maintain her breathing in the stressful carseat position. But now it was for real, we were on our way home.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1285'\n                 title=\"She&#039;d been in the carseat before, for an hour long check on the NICU floor to make sure she could maintain her breathing in the stressful carseat position. But now it was for real, we were on our way home.\"\n                 alt=\"Not so sure about the carseat\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/26.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-26\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/27.jpg\"\n           title=\"\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/27.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_27.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1286\"\n           data-title=\"Comforting her with my finger\"\n           data-description=\"\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1286'\n                 title=\"\"\n                 alt=\"Comforting her with my finger\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/27.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-27\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/28.jpg\"\n           title=\"I rode in the back with her as we&#039;d been instructed. Car seats are hard on preemies and we had to be careful.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/28.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_28.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1287\"\n           data-title=\"I rode with her\"\n           data-description=\"I rode in the back with her as we&#039;d been instructed. Car seats are hard on preemies and we had to be careful.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1287'\n                 title=\"I rode in the back with her as we&#039;d been instructed. Car seats are hard on preemies and we had to be careful.\"\n                 alt=\"I rode with her\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/28.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-28\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/29.jpg\"\n           title=\"\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/29.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_29.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1288\"\n           data-title=\"Home at last\"\n           data-description=\"\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1288'\n                 title=\"\"\n                 alt=\"Home at last\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/29.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-29\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/30.jpg\"\n           title=\"Crying with joy as I carried our baby over the threshold, 26 days old, a month before we&#039;d expected her to be born. It was the best day before Thanksgiving ever.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/30.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_30.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1289\"\n           data-title=\"I couldn&#039;t help crying\"\n           data-description=\"Crying with joy as I carried our baby over the threshold, 26 days old, a month before we&#039;d expected her to be born. It was the best day before Thanksgiving ever.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1289'\n                 title=\"Crying with joy as I carried our baby over the threshold, 26 days old, a month before we&#039;d expected her to be born. It was the best day before Thanksgiving ever.\"\n                 alt=\"I couldn&#039;t help crying\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/30.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-30\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/31.JPG\"\n           title=\"Tirzah Mae lived on our chests, either in the MOBY or just being held. We were so delighted to have her home.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/31.JPG\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_31.JPG\"\n           data-image-id=\"1290\"\n           data-title=\"Our family, home together\"\n           data-description=\"Tirzah Mae lived on our chests, either in the MOBY or just being held. We were so delighted to have her home.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1290'\n                 title=\"Tirzah Mae lived on our chests, either in the MOBY or just being held. We were so delighted to have her home.\"\n                 alt=\"Our family, home together\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/31.JPG\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-31\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/32.JPG\"\n           title=\"\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/32.JPG\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_32.JPG\"\n           data-image-id=\"1291\"\n           data-title=\"Those precious pursed lips\"\n           data-description=\"\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1291'\n                 title=\"\"\n                 alt=\"Those precious pursed lips\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/32.JPG\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-32\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/33.JPG\"\n           title=\"In the womb, in the NICU, and now at home - Tirzah Mae has always been an active baby (even when my body was clearly failing her, I never feared for her - she was so obviously alive and kicking!)\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/33.JPG\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_33.JPG\"\n           data-image-id=\"1292\"\n           data-title=\"Active hands\"\n           data-description=\"In the womb, in the NICU, and now at home - Tirzah Mae has always been an active baby (even when my body was clearly failing her, I never feared for her - she was so obviously alive and kicking!)\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1292'\n                 title=\"In the womb, in the NICU, and now at home - Tirzah Mae has always been an active baby (even when my body was clearly failing her, I never feared for her - she was so obviously alive and kicking!)\"\n                 alt=\"Active hands\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/33.JPG\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-33\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/34.JPG\"\n           title=\"I don&#039;t know how they managed to get her to sleep in the NICU (actually, I do - sandbags that could be used because the extensive monitoring meant reduced risk of SIDS) - but the only way Tirzah Mae slept in her first month at home was on her parents&#039; chest.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/34.JPG\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_34.JPG\"\n           data-image-id=\"1293\"\n           data-title=\"The only way she slept\"\n           data-description=\"I don&#039;t know how they managed to get her to sleep in the NICU (actually, I do - sandbags that could be used because the extensive monitoring meant reduced risk of SIDS) - but the only way Tirzah Mae slept in her first month at home was on her parents&#039; chest.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1293'\n                 title=\"I don&#039;t know how they managed to get her to sleep in the NICU (actually, I do - sandbags that could be used because the extensive monitoring meant reduced risk of SIDS) - but the only way Tirzah Mae slept in her first month at home was on her parents&#039; chest.\"\n                 alt=\"The only way she slept\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/34.JPG\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<div id=\"ngg-image-34\" class=\"ngg-gallery-slideshow-image\" style=\"height:400px\">\n\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/35.jpg\"\n           title=\"He&#039;d nap in bed while I had her sleeping on my chest on the couch and then vice versa. Except, as you can see, exhaustion meant I often fell asleep on the couch too.\"\n           data-src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/35.jpg\"\n           data-thumbnail=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/thumbs\/thumbs_35.jpg\"\n           data-image-id=\"1294\"\n           data-title=\"Daniel and I switched off\"\n           data-description=\"He&#039;d nap in bed while I had her sleeping on my chest on the couch and then vice versa. Except, as you can see, exhaustion meant I often fell asleep on the couch too.\"\n           class='nextgen_pro_lightbox' data-nplmodal-gallery-id='2ff878877c19b8afea4c4e20c19ddebb' data-nplmodal-show-comments=\"1\">\n\n            <img data-image-id='1294'\n                 title=\"He&#039;d nap in bed while I had her sleeping on my chest on the couch and then vice versa. Except, as you can see, exhaustion meant I often fell asleep on the couch too.\"\n                 alt=\"Daniel and I switched off\"\n                 src=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/photoindex\/tirzah-mae-november-2014\/35.jpg\"\n                 style=\"max-height: 380px;\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n\n        <\/div> \n<\/div>\n\n\n\t\t<!-- Thumbnails Link -->\n\t<div class=\"slideshowlink\" style=\"max-width: 600px;\">\n        <a href='http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2012\/20120309-9157.htm\/nggallery\/thumbnails'>[Show thumbnails]<\/a>\n\t<\/div>\n\n\n<p>(Keep clicking on the picture above to a slideshow of Grandma&#8217;s cakes)<\/p>\n<p>These were cakes cut up and reassembled to make fantastical shapes. Cakes covered first with a layer of brightly colored frosting, then with additional layers of coconut. Cakes trimmed with a variety of gumdrops and licorice. Cakes that were a child&#8217;s delight.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes the cakes repeated, but we didn&#8217;t mind. In fact, we often requested the same cake over and over again. <\/p>\n<p>And sometimes, we were just glad that someone else chose the same cake over and over again.<\/p>\n<p>I wouldn&#8217;t have <i>dreamed<\/i> of selecting the lion for myself (how very boyish!)&#8211;but I certainly appreciated that the boys took their turns so we got it at least once or twice a year.<\/p>\n<p>Man, but that toasted coconut on caramel-y frosting was good.<\/p>\n<p><i>What about you? What are your birthday cake stories?<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Prompt #10: &#8220;What were your birthday cakes like when you were growing up? Were they homemade or store-bought?&#8221; We always had two cakes for every birthday&#8211;the cake Mom made and the cake Grandma Menter made. Mom&#8217;s cake was made on the day of our birthday&#8211;one of the old family recipes to go along with our &#8230; <a title=\"Flashback: She built us cakes\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/2012\/20120309-9157.htm\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Flashback: She built us cakes<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9157"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9157"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9157\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9157"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9157"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bekahcubed.menterz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9157"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}