Book Review: “The Adventures of Tom Sawyer” by Mark Twain

Reading to Know - Book ClubIt seems whenever I told someone I was reading Tom Sawyer, they responded with the question “You’re re-reading it, right?”

It seemed inconceivable to all my friends that someone as fond of reading as I would have not read Tom Sawyer. But I had to respond that I honestly did not know whether I had read Tom Sawyer before.

I knew bits and pieces, recognized the names of Tom and Huck and Becky and Injun Joe. I knew the story about whitewashing the fence (of course) and vaguely recollected the island and the cave sequences. Maybe I’d read it before-or maybe I’d picked those details up from other reading I’d done.

Now, having read Tom Sawyer, I think I can confidently assert that before this last month, I had not read Tom Sawyer (except maybe in a highly abridged children’s version.)

Now that I have read Tom Sawyer, I can say that I enjoyed reading it (Thanks, Amy, for picking it for this month’s “Reading to Know Book Club“).

Twain’s descriptions of Sawyer’s childhood brought back fond memories of long hours spent outside with minimal supervision, of brothers and cousins digging pits to who-knows-where, of “adventurous” overnights that sometimes included fire and other times included water (and on the very rare occasion involved both.)

On the other hand, certain elements of Tom’s childhood bear no resemblance whatsoever to my own. I never uttered incantations or signed my name in blood. I never ran away from home or uncovered grave robbers. I never witnessed a murder (thank God!)

I think that before I started this book (and even into the first several chapters), I expected it to be merely a collection of anecdotes with little by way of a unifying story line. I’m glad that did not turn out to be the case–for if it had, I think I would have set down the book in disgust.

Tom is such an awful little creature. He never thinks of anyone except himself and his own pleasure. He is rude, mean, conniving, and thoughtless all at once. Yes, he may have rare moments of kindness (like when he took Becky Thatcher’s beating), but these are few and far between–and one can’t in good conscience say that his misdeeds were simply carelessness and that he had a good heart behind them. No, Tom is a selfish, horrid beast of a boy. He is amusing, but he is bad.

If I had merely been expected to laugh at and enjoy Tom’s antics, I’d have despaired. But Tom Sawyer does have more of a plot than that. Because of that plot, in which Tom Sawyer is scared into being rather a better boy than he would have otherwise been, the book is redeemable and the antics become enjoyable.

I’m definitely thinking I should be reading more Twain. He’s proven by Tom Sawyer that he’s capable of writing engaging fiction–although his apparent enjoyment of Tom’s wickedness makes me wonder if the author is always so morally ambivalent. I think I’m going to reserve judgment for now and wait until I’ve read some more.


Rating:3 Stars
Category:Juvenile Clasic
Synopsis:Tom is a rascally pre-teen who finds himself in over his head when he and a friend witness the murder of the town doctor.
Recommendation: Good story, but the moral ambiguity inclines me to not recommend it for the very young or morally suggestible. I’d read it with a middle-schooler, perhaps, but I’m not sure I’d suggest that they read it on their own.

Check out this Reading to Know Bookclub post to see what other readers are saying about this book.


Freedom, Cliches, and Christ

“Freedom isn’t free.”

The phrase has been running through my brain in these days leading up to Memorial Day.

I remember the first time someone thanked me (me!) for the sacrifices I’d made for freedom.

Me? Sacrifice for freedom?

Of course, said they. You’ve given your brothers to the cause of freedom.

Except that I haven’t really. Not much.

Both my brothers (and my sister-in-law) are proud living Marines. The price we’ve paid is small.

All three of my sibling Marines have all their body parts. The price we’ve paid is small.

Yes, their choice to volunteer in the USMC has meant that I missed my brother and sister-in-law’s wedding. It has meant that John and Kaytee will be stationed far from me. It has meant some discomfort to me. But it is a very small price.

Don’t thank me. I have hardly paid.

John, Kaytee, and Tim have paid more. They have given up a modicum of their own freedom, have submitted themselves to be at the beck and call of the USMC. They do not choose where they will go or what they will be. They do not choose how many push-ups they will do or how fast they will run. The USMC says and they must do.

Even so, their sacrifices pale in the light of many others who have gone before.

Veterans of past wars have come home scarred mentally and physically. They fought, some willingly, some unwillingly for a cause some believed in and others did not. Sometimes they won and sometimes they lost. Sometimes the world was freer for their contributions, sometimes it was not. Yet they fought, they sacrificed to obtain or maintain freedom for others.

Men and women have fought and died for freedom, leaving behind their blood, their bodies, their brave deeds. They fought for a freedom they would not enjoy-freedom to live in peace in the United States, in Europe, in the Middle East. They fought against regimes that did not topple in their lifetimes, lifetimes cut short by war. They never saw the end of the central powers, of Nazi Germany, of Soviet Communism.

They paid everything they had.

Yet even their sacrifice pales in light of a great sacrifice.

Freedom isn’t free. Jesus paid a high price for it.

A soldier subjects himself to humiliation by drill instructors, by foreign enemies, by insensitive and misunderstanding brutes at home. Christ subjected himself to humiliation by becoming a part of His creation. He subjected Himself to the humiliation of being mocked by the very ones He had given life, the ones whose life He currently sustained.

A soldier is conscripted or volunteers, knowing that death is possible. Jesus volunteered, knowing that death was inevitable, necessary.

A soldier may bear the wrath of a peeved higher officer, of an angry enemy combatant, of a rabid anti-war activist. Christ bore the wrath of His own righteous Father.

Freedom isn’t free.

Jesus paid for it. He paid a price we could never pay.

I wonder, as these thoughts run through my head, if I’m not cheapening the sacrifice of our soldiers, not reducing the impact of our fallen veterans. Am I trivializing all that Memorial Day is about? I am, after all, making light of the physical sacrifices of our soldiers by comparing them with the huge sacrifice of my Savior.

But no, I realize. If anything, I make light of Christ by comparing His sacrifice with that of a soldier.

How can I thank a veteran today? How can I remember the mere men who fought for freedom?

I can thank my veterans by telling them of the freedom that transcends politics. I can remember those who fought by glorifying the one who Won.

Because he who the Son sets free is free indeed.

May I fight, may I sacrifice, may I live and die that His Sacrifice be remembered.


Sunday School in Review: Part 4

I taught Isaiah the week before Christmas–and chose to branch off on my own. I still used the “official” worksheet some, but I made my own worksheet for what I really wanted to emphasize: Jesus.

Who is Jesus in Isaiah? I asked.

We learned about the Son of a virgin, of Immanuel which means “God with us”. We learned that He is Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. We read of the shoot from the stump of Jesse, the precious cornerstone. We learned about God’s servant, a man of sorrows who was like a sheep led to the slaughter.

We studied Jesus–and my teaching heart began to sing again.

My first lesson of the new year, we played hangman to start the class.

“Sovereign:” our hangman read. “ruler, one who is in control.”

I handed out clay to each student, and read Jeremiah 1:4-10. We talked about how God had planned in advance what Jeremiah would be and do. We saw that God was sovereign in calling Jeremiah to ministry-and in accomplishing that ministry through Jeremiah.

We went to the potter’s house and saw a potter in complete control of the clay. We saw God as sovereign over nations being built and destroyed–just like the potter was in complete control of the clay.

We looked at the prophecies of Jeremiah and saw them as evidence of God’s sovereignty. They came true not just because God knew the future, but because He controls the future.

We talked about the implications of God’s sovereignty. We talked about how this is terrifying to people who don’t know Jesus and who are disobedient to God. God is in control and they have made themselves His enemy. We talked about how people who trust in Jesus can be comforted by and confident in God’s sovereignty. We talked about how God has already said what He’s making out of believers’ lives–about how He’s making them so they look like Jesus.

We didn’t have a worksheet this week. I knew what I wanted to teach and I wasn’t willing to let any piece of paper from the curriculum dilute the teaching.

It felt good, freeing, to be teaching meat instead of pablum.

To be continued…


Thankful Thursday: Attitude Adjustment

Thankful Thursday bannerMaybe you haven’t recognized it from my blogging–or maybe you have–but I’ve needed an attitude adjustment for a good long while.

I’ve been busy at work and stressed and… I’ve been making excuses for having a downright rotten attitude.

I’ve dwelt on the worst in every situation, only bothering to be thankful when I sit down for my Thursday posts. I’ve whined and complained about my circumstances–and only given thanks despite my circumstances, rarely in my circumstances.

Then, by the grace of God, I received a review copy of Sarah Francis Martin’s Stress Point: Thriving Through Your 20s in a Decade of Drama. I started in on “Stress Point 1: Career”. And I read:

“By worshiping Him in our job situations, whether or not the circumstances are ideal, we run smack dab into happiness, blessings, and fulfillment. Dissatisfaction in our jobs is enveloped and overriden by insatiable satisfaction in El Elyon–our one and only Wish.”
~from page 18 of Stress Point

The author gives some tips for maintaining balance with regard to your career. None of them were particular earth-shattering, but the overall reminder was wonderful.

I needed an attitude adjustment-at work and in life.

This week, I’m thankful…

…for God speaking to me through this book

…for restful times of prayer during my commute

…for the ability to pray throughout the day

…that I can choose how I respond to circumstances

…for the truth of the Word of God which says:

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything through prayer and supplication let your requests be made known to God–and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
~Philippians 4:6-7

It’s amazing how the simple acts of surrendering in prayer and worshiping in work produce peace amidst chaos.

Have I had a less crazy week? Not necessarily. But I have certainly had a less stressful week. Because when my attitude is in line with Christ, my burden is light.


Book Review: “The Harvard Medical School Guide to Overcoming Thyroid Problems”

Have you met your thyroid gland yet?

Your thyroid gland controls your metabolic rate–the rate at which your heart pumps, your food digests, your cells divide, and so on and so forth.

Much of the time, your thyroid’s an innocuous fellow, going about his business without drawing attention to himself. Problem is, every so often he gets his nose out of joint and instead of just announcing himself and getting the problem fixed, he mopes about, leaving his host (that’s you) mopey too (with no idea what the problem is or how to fix it.)

The Harvard Medical School Guide to Overcoming Thyroid Problems by Jeffrey R. Garber, MD, gives a psychology of this little guy–so you can understand when he might be feeling out of sorts.

I picked up this book from the library for a number of reasons:

  1. I have a thyroid condition
  2. Around half of my residents have a thyroid condition of some sort
  3. I’m reading every book in my library so I’d have to read it eventually

The first is a no-brainer. I’ve known I was at risk for a thyroid condition at least since my early teens. I have family history of them up the wazzoo (I’ve probably got more family with thyroid conditions than most people have family.) I’ve requested routine blood work to screen for hypothyroidism every year since I was 14 or so. Even so, my own hypothyroidism hid out as a stress-response for at least a couple of months before I got it treated. Amazingly, once I started treatment, I felt 100% better (or maybe even more.)

The second reason is interesting. Because the thyroid gland affects the body’s metabolic rate, it’s something that is always in the back of my mind when I’m assessing residents. If someone is barely eating but keeps on gaining weight, chances are I’m going to request thyroid labs. If someone is eating far more than I estimate they need and keeps losing weight, you better bet I’m going to request thyroid labs (since the alternative, cancer, is MUCH less pleasant.) I’m not always right when I guess that there might be an underlying thyroid issue–but I’ve been right often enough (and seen dramatic enough results in clinical outcomes and resident quality of life) that I’m going to keep on requesting thyroid screens when I see evidence that points that way.

But enough about my experience with thyroid issues. Let’s get to the book.

The layout of Overcoming Thyroid Problems is straightforward, first giving a simple description of the anatomy and physiology of the thyroid gland before moving through a collection of thyroid disorders from most common to least.

The reader will learn about a half dozen iterations of hypothyroidism, common and uncommon causes of hyperthyroidism, and a mess of information about thyroid lumps from benign to cancerous.

This is a pretty thorough book (excepting how it glossed over what exactly a “thyroid storm” consists of). You’ll learn about Hashimoto’s thyroiditis (most people who have it simply get the diagnosis “hypothyroid” and begin on thyroid hormone replacement therapy), Graves’ disease (did you know that both George H.W. and Barbara Bush had Graves’ disease?), multinodular goiter, and medullary thyroid cancer.

Truth be told, this book contains far more information than you or I would ever need.

Nevertheless, it’s a good book. Thyroid conditions (especially hypothyroidism) affect a huge proportion of the population–and often go undiagnosed or are misdiagnosed. This book gives individuals the tools they need to assess their risk for a thyroid condition and the information they need to be an informed thyroid patient.

Because many of you (those of you without a diagnosed thyroid condition) are not likely to pick up this book, I’ll mention a few of the common symptoms of a hypothyroidism (the most common thyroid condition) here.

If you have some or several of the following symptoms, you may benefit from having your doctor check your thyroid:

  • Fatigue
  • Cold sensitivity (always feeling cold)
  • Loss of appetite
  • Slow pulse
  • Weight gain (even if you’re eating less than usual)
  • Depression
  • Dry skin and brittle fingernails
  • Hair loss
  • Constipation
  • Muscular and joint pain
  • High cholesterol
  • Carpal tunnel syndrome

A thyroid screen involves a simple blood test that measures the amount of “thyroid stimulating hormone” (TSH) in your blood. If the TSH is high (indicating hypothyroidism), the treatment is simple: thyroid hormone replacement therapy. Pop a pill each morning, Mr. Thyroid is happy, you are happy. No fancy diets to follow, no restrictions of any sort. Take a pill, feel better.

In my experience, it’s like magic. This is one “too good to be true” that actually is true. If you’ve got hypothyroidism, treatment can change your life.

This book is a great resource for individuals who have a thyroid condition or who are at risk for a thyroid condition. If you or a close relative (since thyroid issues do have a genetic component) has hypo- or hyperthyroidism, Graves’ disease, goiter, or thyroid nodules, you might want to pick up a copy of this book. You’ll find reliable information regarding signs and symptoms of thyroid conditions, screening and diagnostic tests, and treatment options.


Rating:3 Stars
Category:Medical Reference
Synopsis:An overview of thyroid conditions, with discussion of their symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment
Recommendation: A great reference for those who have a thyroid condition, have some of the symptoms suggestive of thyroid conditions, or who have a family history that puts them at risk for a thyroid condition. (Almost) everything you’d ever need to know about thyroid conditions. (The three stars are only because of it’s narrow appeal, not because of poor information.)


Nightstand (May 2012)

Looking through this month’s list, it definitely looks like I’ve been on a fiction kick. Of course, I have a half dozen non-fiction works in progress in my bag or on my Kindle–but I just haven’t been finishing them at the rate I’ve been finishing fiction.

But why worry? Balance is for the birds. Why not add unbalanced reading to all the rest of the stuff that’s currently unbalanced in my life?

Books Read and Ready to be Returned

Finished Books (Waiting to Be Returned to the Library)

This month I read:

Adult Fiction

  • The Damascus Way by Davis Bunn and Janette Oke
    I’m continuing to enjoy these historical novels set around the early church. This one includes (can you guess?) Saul, the church persecutor, in addition to familiar characters (both Biblical and fictional) from the previous books in the series. I’m realizing that this is as far as the series goes at this point. Oh my! I’ve committed the unthinkable, getting engrossed in a series that isn’t finished yet!
  • The Drifter, The Maverick, and The Plainsman by Lori Copeland
    An okay series, mostly fluff but good for a turn-off-your-brain read. I enjoyed The Drifter (the second book in the series) best. In it, a Kansas widow saves a drifter who was being mauled by a wolf–and then tries to force him to marry her so she can keep her homestead claim. Maybe I just enjoyed that one because I’m a sucker for stories of marriages of convenience.
  • Letter Perfect by Cathy Marie Hake
    Ruth Caldwell causes trouble wherever she goes. She doesn’t intend to do it, but not even a half dozen young ladies finishing schools has been able to turn her into a “letter perfect” woman. When her mother’s dying wish sends her to California to stay with the father she never knew–and when the father turns out to be no longer living… Well, things get interesting. I thoroughly enjoyed this story.
  • Bittersweet by Cathy Marie Hake
    The sequel to the aforementioned title, Bittersweet follows Ruth’s sister-in-law Laney, whose longstanding crush Galen has finally started noticing her. But when the squatter living on Galen’s land makes a startling revelation, Laney’s hopes and dreams come crashing down. I’m definitely enjoying Hake these days.
  • A Vote of Confidence by Robin Lee Hatcher
    Hatcher sure likes her suffragettes. I’m not quite as fond of these I-will-never-marry-oops-I-fell-in-love heroines as she seems to be. Hatcher’s books are fluffy reads, okay but not amazing.
  • Ariel Custer by Grace Livingston Hill
    A bit unique among Hill’s works in that it includes a bit of a mystery (about 3/4 of the way through). Oh, and it includes a bad mother (probably what sets it apart most from Hill’s other works.) It took a while to get started, but once it was going, I enjoyed it well enough.
  • The Rest of Her Life by Laura Moriarty
    A beautiful, introspective novel with realistic, nuanced relationships. This is probably the best novel I’ve read so far this year. Read my full review here.

Books In Progress

Books in Progress (That’s where all the Nonfiction is!)

Adult Non-fiction

  • Busy Mom’s Guide to Family Nutrition by Paul C. Reisser
    A basic nutrition guide put out by the Focus on the Family Physician’s Resource Council. I gave it a “meh” review and suggested that I should write my own Christian nutrition reference–something that I’m only half kidding about.
  • Grace for the Good Girl by Emily P. Freeman
    Barbara H. wrote an excellent review of this book just as I was finishing it up and returning it to the library. I didn’t feel the need to write a repeat review. Suffice to say that it was very good. I’m so thankful that God opened my eyes to His marvelous grace six years ago in Jacksonville, Florida. I pray that others will recognize that they were not only saved (past-tense) by grace, but that they also walk (present-tense) through God’s grace. This book is a good reminder.
  • Knack Pregnancy Guide
    Research, I tell you, research. :-) And maybe just my own continuing curiosity. I’m still pretty bummed that my midwife career didn’t pan out.
  • Make the Bread, Buy the Butter by Jennifer Reese
    I read every blurb all the way through. I tried one recipe. I returned the book to the library. I ordered myself a copy. Jennifer Reese is my hero, comparing the homemade version to the store-bought for everything from cake to cheese to hot dogs. Alice of Supratentorial also wrote some thoughts on this book while I was in the middle of it. Her conclusion: Buy it. I concur.
  • The Penguin Book of Women’s Humor edited by Regina Barreca
    The back of the book explains that this is “a landmark anthology that proves there is a distinctly female way of being funny.” If this anthology showcases this distinctly female way of being funny, I can summarize said distinctive way in two words: Not Funny. 600 pages of venomous bitterness. Blech. I gave up when I still hadn’t found anything funny by page 229.

Books still waiting to be read

Up Next (Books Still Waiting to Be Read)

Juvenile Fiction

  • Cam Jansen and the Mystery of the Stolen Corn Popper by David A. Adler
  • Cam Jansen and the Chocolate Fudge Mystery by David A. Adler
  • Young Cam Jansen and the 100th Day of School Mystery by David A. Adler
  • Young Cam Jansen and the Ice Skate Mystery by David A. Adler
  • Young Cam Jansen and the Library Mystery by David A. Adler
  • Mystery at Devil’s Paw by Franklin W. Dixon
  • Boston Jane by Jennifer L. Holm
    Jane is a motherless tomboy throwing mud in the Philadelphia streets before William Baldt shows up on her doorstep to apprentice under her father. Then she’s off to school to learn how to be a lady (after all, William thinks it’s important). Jane pines for William when he leaves on a ship for Washington Territory, but the two correspond as promised–and at last Jane leaves for Washington to become William’s bride. When she gets there, though, she discovers that Washington isn’t quite what she expected–and neither is her fiance. This was a very strange book. It’s labeled as juvenile fiction by my library, but it’s really not. It’s pioneer fiction, with a main character who starts as a girl and emerges as a woman. I suppose it wasn’t edgy enough to be labeled YA–and couldn’t be adult fiction because Jane isn’t even 18 when the book ends. It was pretty good, if unclassifiable.
  • The Redheaded Princess by Ann Rinaldi
    I checked out Rinaldi’s book about Lady Jane Grey during my last library trip–so now it was time to see how she would portray Jane’s cousin, Elizabeth. The Redheaded Princess didn’t disappoint. It was a enjoyable detailed little novel about the girl who would become Queen Elizabeth I.
  • At least 36 Children’s picture books

Juvenile Non-Fiction

  • One-Room School by Raymond Bial
    A glossy, full-color history of rural one-room schools. I cried a little (for real) when I read: “In addition to the Amish, Hutterite, and other parochial schools, there are still more than 800 one-room public schools, mostly in Nebraska…” Sadly, in the twelve years since this lovely little history was written, one-room schools have disappeared from Nebraska’s landscape to be replaced by consolidated schools that offer long bus rides and sub-par educations. Despite the sadness this book reminded me of, the book itself is a wonderful tribute to the way the majority of American students learned for over a century.
  • Passover: Celebrating Now, Remembering Then by Harriet Ziefert
    Do you plan on celebrating the Passover with your little ones? If you don’t, you should consider it (talk to me for more info about how the Passover points to Jesus.) If you do, you should consider picking up a copy of this book to prep your kids for what’s to come. This lovely book goes through the basic order of the Seder, describing what is done (“Now we hold up the roasted lamb bone”) and pointing backwards to the Exodus (“Then the Angel of Death passed over the homes of the Israelites.”) This is a great introduction to the Seder–and worth having.

Don’t forget to drop by 5 Minutes 4 Books to see what others are reading this month!

What's on Your Nightstand?


I complain too much

I just have to say it.

I complain way too much.

I am blessed beyond compare, yet I spend so much time whining.

For now, I’m thankful for lunch with Kathy and Jon, hanging out on the dock with Beth, conversations with Grace, Reg’s with the W’s and Cait and Anna and the aforementioned, a huge hug from Ashlyn, time spent with the Ericksons and their guests, a bonfire at the other W’s.

And that was just today.

Really? I think I have something to complain about?

Think again, Rebekah. God has given you immeasurable blessings.

Praise Him.


Book Review: “The Rest of Her Life” by Laura Moriarty

Leigh arrives home from work one day, vaguely annoyed to find that the recycling can had been overturned and no one had bothered to pick it up. Then she walks into the living room, where her family waits. There was an accident, her husband informs her. Kara was driving. A girl is dead.

They’d tried to call Leigh, but she hadn’t answered. There wasn’t time to try again. He had to comfort their daughter.

The tragedy brings the strained relationship between mother and daughter into sharp relief. Kara turns to Gary, rebuffs Leigh’s attempts at sympathy.

The tragedy brings out the strained relationship between Gary and their precocious son. It tests Leigh and Gary’s marriage. It tests Leigh’s friendship with her best friend, with her community.

It makes Leigh wonder how she managed to get here–alienated from her daughter when she’d tried so hard to be a good mother, to give her daughter everything she hadn’t gotten from her own mother.

The Rest of Her Life is an introspective work, exploring Leigh’s past and present, digging into her thoughts about her marriage, her family, her friendships, her standing in the community.

This was a wonderful book with so many positive qualities that I find it hard to just give a general impression. There are so many things to like, so many things to mention.

I’ll begin with technicalities. I love that Leigh’s story is told in past-tense third person subjective. This point of view is an integral part of the story–and is a breath of fresh air after the spate of first person novels inundating the female marketplace.

The author has an M.A. in Creative Writing, but unlike many an academic artist, she doesn’t try too hard to be groundbreaking with her style. This is a book that follows the conventions of the English language, with capitalization and punctuation exactly where they should be, letting you get on with the story instead of worrying about misunderstanding meaning in the midst of the hodgepodge of “creative” effects.

And what a story it is. Moriarty demonstrates a keen insight into human relationships, teasing out the complexities of Leigh’s relationship with her daughter, her husband, her son, her best friend, her sister, her own mother, the mother of the dead girl.

In Leigh, we see a mother who tries hard to be the mother her mother never was–and who doesn’t understand why her daughter doesn’t appreciate that. We see a mother frustrated because she can’t seem to connect with her teenage daughter, a woman who learns to put aside herself in order to relate to her daughter.

In Leigh and Gary’s marriage, we see a couple who works hard to stay married. We see misunderstandings, frustrations, and accusations–and a choice to keep at it despite all that. I loved that Gary and Leigh’s marriage is neither sensationally awful nor saccharinely good. It’s honest, a rare trait in novels depicting marriage.

I can identify a lot with Leigh, despite our many differences (Let me count the ways…I’m not married, not a mother, not middle aged, not a teacher, not secular, not a product of a broken home…) Leigh is something of a loner, holding herself aloof from many around her. She is compassionate, but often doesn’t know how to express her compassion. Should she write a note, go to the dead girl’s funeral, put her hand on her daughter’s knee in sympathy? She simultaneously enjoys and dreads the gossip her best friend shares with her. She wants to do everything right, has a vision of how her life should look–but finds herself acting and her life looking differently than she’d envisioned.

Leigh is a sympathetic character. Her relationships are real and complex–not just dramatic episodes but full of subtle expectations, longings, comfortability, and differences. Leigh grows, learns, develops through her experiences. The relationships grow through their experiences.

This is novel-craft at its finest.


Rating:5 Stars
Category:General Fiction
Synopsis:When Leigh’s daughter accidentally kills a pedestrian and turns to her dad instead of Leigh for sympathy, Leigh is forced into an introspective review of her relationships with her children, her husband, and her best friends.
Recommendation: Wow. This is a truly good book. I definitely recommend it.


Sunday School in Review: Part 3

Ruth was easy–only 4 chapters that week. We went through the story at a leisurely pace, recalling at the beginning how we were still in the time of the judges (with its requisite problems) and pointing forward at the end to the coming King Jesus who would reign forever.

The next week, we tried to eat an elephant in a single bite, packing 1 and 2 Samuel and 1 and 2 Chronicles into an hour and a half.

Race through Eli, race through Samuel. Race through Saul. Race through David. Contrast Saul with David–both sinful but one repentant. Ask whether David was the perfect king. Answer no. We need a better king. God promised one. The king that would come would be from David’s family–and would be the perfect King forever.

Each child colored a different picture. When the race through the books was done, each child showed off their picture and we talked briefly about the story behind it.

No time to do much else.

I had grand plans for our time in 1 and 2 Kings. We were going to play a “Go Fish” style game called “Good King/Bad King” that I’d thought up the night before.

We got too busy talking about the good kings and the bad kings that we didn’t have time to get to the game.

I was getting tired of trying to arrange my own lessons (drawn from my personal study) around the worksheets in the curriculum, so I’d given up on trying to impart something valuable and was now creating my lessons entirely around the worksheet.

It was, nevertheless, exhausting to feel that I wasn’t doing the Scripture justice in reducing it to stories and little factoids.

I tried to make it interesting, at least. For Ezra and Nehemiah, different children had different letters to color, royal decrees from Cyrus or Artaxerxes–and letters to the kings from the people around Jerusalem. Depending on their reading abilities, the children could read their own letter out loud or I would read it for them.

In Esther, I had planned to do the melodrama-style booing and hissing whenever Haman’s name was mentioned–but the kids were squirrelly enough already, I knew that to boo and hiss would take the class out of control. I’d lost my helper a few weeks into the year and maintaining classroom control was always a highly tenuous idea.

I acted out Job as a skit, playing God, the devil, Job, and Job’s four friends in turn, jumping from one end of the room as I switched from being the accuser to being God bragging on Job.

I recited/read chapters 1 and 2 verbatim, and distilled Job and his friends’ monologues into one or two sentences each. Once God started speaking, I expanded again, only lightly abridging the Scriptures.

Once class was over, I discovered that the teachers for the second session were sick and wouldn’t be able to come in. I did my one-woman act a second time, this time to an enormous class of kids who weren’t quite sure what to do with me (apparently, I taught a bit differently from their usual teachers–hah!)

We sang our way through Psalms. I distributed Bingo cards to each student and pulled songs from a hat, playing old Hosanna CDs borrowed from my mother and looking up the verses that went along with each song.

The next week, we did the worksheet on Proverbs and Ecclesiastes, filling in the matching questions as we read selected verses. This took too long for us to get to Song of Solomon.

I was getting thoroughly exhausted by our curriculum.

The Word of God is wonderful, but I didn’t feel like the worksheets were coming close to doing it justice. I was afraid the students were getting absolutely nothing out of the teachings. I was desperate.

I scrapped the curriculum entirely for Isaiah.


Thankful Thursday: He will not break

You’ve heard the saying “God never gives us more than we can bear”?

It’s not true.
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My mom says, “God never gives us more than He can bear.”

So much better.

But here’s an even better promise–one straight from the pages of Scripture:

“A bruised reed he will not break,
and a faintly burning wick he will not quench;
he will faithfully bring forth justice.
He will not grow faint or be discouraged
till he has established justice in the earth;
and the coastlands wait for his law.”
~Isaiah 42:3-4 (ESV)

How often do we feel like bruised reeds, like smouldering wicks? How often do we grow faint or get discouraged?

For me, it’s pretty often.

But in Christ, I have an amazing promise. He will not overburden me–and He will not be faint or get discouraged in pursuing justice. Thus, I can rest, even under the load that bends my reed to its capacity.

This week, I’m thankful…

…that Jesus Christ bore a crushing load so that I would not be broken

“Surely he has borne our griefs
and carried our sorrows;
yet we esteemed him stricken,
smitten by God, and afflicted.
But he was pierced for our transgressions;
he was crushed for our iniquities;
upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace,
and with his wounds we are healed

it was the will of the Lord to crush him;
he has put him to grief;
when his soul makes an offering for guilt,
he shall see his offspring; he shall prolong his days;
the will of the Lord shall prosper in his hand.
Out of the anguish of his soul he shall see and be satisfied;
by his knowledge shall the righteous one, my servant,
make many to be accounted righteous,
and he shall bear their iniquities.”
~Isaiah 53:4-5, 10-11 (ESV)